Sometimes having a big lavish wedding can be detrimental to any couple preparing to tie the knot. If you're not ready to endure all the stress that comes with it why not try a celeb phenomenon - and elope.

The stigma usually associated with eloping - defying parents and the norms of society to run away with your loved one and get married secretly - is long past its sell-by date.

These days it's all about practicality - and it's not all negative either. There are actually many positives attributes to the practice that can make that day extra special - even in South Africa.

Spur of the moment… but not quite Vegas

We chatted to a couple who skipped the conventional way of getting married by tying the knot at the SEXPO 

Jannie Saayman who married James Saayman: “We decided to get married at SEXPO as we wanted something small and quick.

We've been staying together for five years. I read about SEXPO in the newspaper Die Burger, it was perfect and just what we wanted. At first I was a bit nervous because of all the sex-related things and strippers.

But it was clean and good fun.

Five years sealed in five minutes

Everything happened so quickly. But it is something I will remember for the rest of my life. As we arrived the minister introduced himself and we filled in all the necessary papers - five minutes later were married.”

The pros…
• It can be cheaper. Eloping will cost you a fraction of the price of what a big wedding may cost.
• There is no need for a wedding planner.
• You get to avoid all family arguments about the wedding.
• The honeymoon begins the minute you say, “I do”… exchange your vows in an exotic location makes this convenient.
• Eloping also helps sort out any qualms if your families stay far apart - especially so if your family can’t agree on a wedding location.
• It's a private and intimate affair.

The cons…
There aren’t that many though but should be considered.
• Family and friends will feel offended and hurt for not being part of your special day. However, you can consider a welcome home reception for those who feel jilted.
• You may miss the opportunity to capture a grand affair on camera and share it with your children one day.
• If your parents don’t approve, family conflict may be inevitable.

 
So if you considering on planning that big day, book one of our packages.

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